Oh! How i wish it were as simple as Dean Martin says 'One girl,One boy,some grief some joy...'
Finding the right ingredients to Love might take some learning,unlearning,cooking and even alot of cleaning that mostly involves scrubbing and scrapping!
Alas! whoever said cooking was an easy job must have only been microwaving his packaged food!!
Likewise Love cant be bought in a package off the shelf : "looking for decent tamil brahmin,23 years,graduate and family loving" (aka a free domesticated maid that provides food/s**/takes care of ur home and babies while all you need to do is foot the bills)
When we go out seeking the most elusive loooooove we start of with someone who has things in common with you. Sure! We like to eat three meals,we breathe,we shower and floss everyday! What more?The rest are stories we tell of our life and when the other comes close to feeling the way you do-you label it Love! In all honesty no one has ever listened to you...they can hear you and interpret it the way their mind knows best! So,that again may not be the best way to find and cook a lovestory!
In my expierence relationships are a great method of gaining self-awareness,only sometimes we miss the lesson! Oh well! there is always a next time,unless your a woman whose Biological clock has started ticking....Alarm!
I think I could use some time-management skills in finding Love...as you know Procrastination is my best friend,I have always found a better hobby or travel destination to put it off with!
But,'you cant hurry love,no you just have to wait. Love dont come easy its a game of give and take!'
On a more Yogic note~ Its not your job to love me,its my job! So seeking love outside of me is a mere Illusion. Its how you love yourself that is reflected on your partner. We cant really love another,can we? We can only love what we believe them to be. Take that belief away and he will be no different from anyone on this planet and that is universal love!!!
Similarly,I would like to invite you to explore how much you cherish being you and reallly chersih that~)
Love says " I love you no matter what,your beautiful just the way you are"
If there are any hidden conditions....know it was never love to begin with.
